My morning pre breakfast walk was around the quite substantial 16 acre property owned by the motel (we learnt the boundaries the hard way by trespassing on a neighbour’s land). I’ve found that to complete my more than 10km daily walk, having a couple of kms under my feet takes the edge off the target.
We’re following the ‘Waterfall Way’ today which will take us to the huge waterfall at Ebor. A large rainforest which we will explore on our return shrouded an array of ‘s’ bends. These twists and turns nestled into the cliff face, leaving a high cliff wall on one side and a deep cliff fall on the other. This 9km long drive is scarily called ‘a crash zone’ ( not sure whether this referred to its potential or its actuality.
Up into the pretty town of Dorrigo where many shops were closed (these days it is difficult to know the reason). As is common in country towns there are many coffee houses, and I say this because some of them look like former homes. On the weekends they look like bustling affairs but it can be deceiving.
We continued on to our huge waterfall. It was falling strongly because of large amounts of nocturnal rain. It was a stark contrast to see a waterfall surrounded by fire ravaged trees, the other contrast being the green growth on many of them. A few people today, so much greeting and therefore a larger focus on distancing.
It was soon back to Dorrigo National Park at the top of the ‘s’ bends. A beautiful 6km walk took us through tall stands of gracious gums, and spectcaular strangler figs with numerous ferns of all types. On our way to the forest falls there was more interaction on a narrow track. Corrie and I decided to stop with our heads facing outwards as we passed others. A lot of ‘hello’s’, ‘thank you’s’, and ‘how are you’s’ competed with the numerous small talk of whip birds, water fowl, butcher birds and others, often echoed by cheeky lyrebirds.
A delightful afternoon in one of nature’s special places. Back down this ‘many cornered road’ my focus was mostly on this steep downhill crash zone. The other focus was on one of those constant interchanges we have with each other and that often used phrase ‘how are you’? It’s a caring phrase but often it has little to do with the other’s health and more just a common form of politeness.
Tonight we will dine at ‘Corrie’s pub’ in the main street of Bellingen. Well, it was her dad’s but she lived there.
“Hello how are you?”, it’s a common greeting
It’s nice to know that someone cares enough,
To check your health at every single meeting
In case you’ve gone from ‘well’ to ‘very stuffed’.
The answer usually is a token gesture
Unless there was a pre-existing ill,
And you may not, just want to further venture
In case it is a mountain not a hill.
So how about – “Hello, how was your day?”
Or “what exciting things have you been up to?”
It gives them scope to vary what they say
And they can freely choose to say: “it’s blue”.
You need some time to listen and respond,
So learn what’s best, where not to go beyond.
Hello Will and Corrie. We’re so glad you’re enjoying your Aussie trip – though I’m sure it doesn’t quite match up to the delights of Europe! We were in Bellingen and Dorrigo last year and it’s great to read your descriptions. I hope the rest of your trip is good – and we look forward to seeing you soon. Balmain’s not the same without you! Much love Monica and Mark xxx
It will be fun sharing our stories when we return
Hello dearest friends!
Such fond memories of beautiful Bellingen, and staying in the same place as you, from what we can understand. We also loved the journey to Dorrigo, and recall having been to the Waterfall Way as well. It must have evoked memories for you, Coralie, having lived there all that time ago.
William, again a great poem! I thought I’d take the liberty of sharing a poem I wrote some time ago, with the same theme. We would see this guy at different times in Glebe – last time we say him some three years ago, he was in the shallow water at Glebe Point, taking the rubbish out of the water.
What made him stand out was his wonderful greeting of absolutely everyone – a wholehearted, positive greeting. He would say, “Hello you beautiful people”, to Janine and me, and add for good measure, “Jesus loves you!” Some people would have thought him a bit crazy, but we loved seeing him, and just perhaps, he was less crazy than most of us. Anyhow, Will, here it is. Happy wanderings.
As you can see, it’s also a sonnet.
“Hello”, a greeting. “How are you?”
As we passed each other yesterday.
“I’m fine. And you?” “Me too.”
She says, as we both go our way.
So typical, this social game.
Were they real questions? Truly, no.
The words polite, unconscious, lame.
We didn’t really want to know.
Now I remember another time.
Full-hearted greeting, great surprise.
So different, almost a crime.
“Hello, beautiful people!” Light in his eyes.
Let’s play that game – greet from the heart.
Perhaps we can do it – let’s make a start!
Yours is much more personal – our little contact with others prevents this mostly, but as you’ve shown, you don’t need much dialogue